I would ask why you’re dating this guy at all, but the answer is in the first sentence of your last paragraph. Though the ranting and raving about food and work will NEVER stop.Physical amazingness counts for a lot, but it doesn’t make up for general incompatibility. Also, there seems to be no job security in this industry. DESIGNERGIRL77 I live with my boyfriend, who is a chef.

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So if you’re the type of guy who could never date a couple, then please, do yourself a favor, and close out of this page.

If you’re blood boils at the thought of any type of non-monogamous relationship, then this is not for you.

and talking to you about the same stuff (while you are half asleep).

JACKIEFORREAL Put your phone on mute when you go to bed. LEFTYLUCY For you, dating a chef sounds like a recipe for disaster.

Call it a midlife crisis, poor judgment or a cheater’s heart. (Rick Thomas)He told me he was cash poor because of a large investment he’d made in a fledgling “retail” business and that it was always slow getting a new venture off the ground. Affairs columns So I started paying for dinners if we wanted to go out, and then groceries when we wanted to stay in — which became more and more frequent because, well, money problems.

I could tell he was one of those guys who always had something in the works; the type of guy that is so excited about his “next big thing” that you barely question what that “thing” actually is. He got hooked up for Dave Grohl concert tickets in San Diego one weekend, only I drove us down and paid for the “hookup” tickets, and even put dinner on my credit card.

The not knowing what we know now; the hindsight is 20/20 and all that.

I met him at Finn Mc Cool’s on Main Street in Santa Monica.

In these eight years I have grown tremendously and learned a few lessons about myself, love and the opposite sex. In these eight years I have grown tremendously and learned a few lessons about myself, love and the opposite sex. It all naturally led into a fully fledged two-month whirlwind of budding romance. We want to publish your story Things he said stopped adding up, but I didn’t want to judge too quickly because goodness knows I didn’t come with a clean canvas. Like, the black Mercedes he would pick me up in turned out to be his mother’s.